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Wrong! The european nations have a host of options, one of them is "Serve as a soldier". Based on germany in the Cold War (Where we actually HAD a visible enemy) the options where
+ Civil service (18 month vs. 15+Reserve)
+ Join the fire department
+ Join the Civilian Disaster reliev (THW)
+ Join the Police (1)
+ Join the Borger Guard
+ Go to Draft Dodger city (Berlin)
So military service was 100 percent volunteer despite "the draft" being active.
And for self protection: In civilized countries you do that by calling the police!
In their culture everyone is in the Army and the Police Force, and well trained so they don't need protection.
The army protects your farm, city, continent, planet, and starsystem. The Army does not go anywhere to fight outside of their own system or planet. The Emperial Marines are a volutary career path. These are troops that are mobilized to fight off planet. Except for newly formed colonies they don't even concern themselves with protecting their own worlds because they don't have to.
What is a "fair" fight? Rigging a duel is extremly easy. I.e all males in my family can shoot but in a "Pistols at 20 paces" none has a chance against me since I am the only one who shoots regularly. As for the rest that sounds like "might makes right" since being a member of a large/powerful clan will save you from punishment. Sounds like the Viking "civilization" where "being right" and "getting ones dues" where also different things. And again it forces the individual to bow to the clan since only with the clans backing can you get what you are entitled for
Duels are fought with swords, knives or barehanded and in accordance with strict rules and options agreed to by both parties. This is always one on one and the person must be in your peer group. (within 1 soc of each other)
There is some 'might makes right', so a person who wins a duel and is clearly wrong may have to fight multiple duels with different people before the matter is put to rest. No one likes a bully.
Anyone caught rigging a duel would be stripped of all honor, name, social standing and posessions and made a Ptah or slave until such time that they recained a name for themselves.
The exception to this is that duels for a womans favor or hand in marraige are often rigged with the combatants agreeing ahead of time who will win. (This assumes that both men are not
actually vying for the womans favor!) This is done to show the mans commitment to the woman and to raise the womans perceived value.
"Moving out" => loosing the clans protection => becoming a target/outlaw in your society. That is what modern cultures worked hard to abolish! The individuls right to have and voice/live an opinion MUST come first for a system to be called civilized IMHO.
And that still leaves the problem of "what to do if the child embarasses the family". Example:
I come from a small, conservative german town (Thankfully I left it). VERY conservative-catholic. One of my co-pupils back in school was gay. TOTALLY! unacceptabel. He kept that hidden through high school and university. Once he was finished and had a job (in Cologne!) he told his parents - they have not spoken since. He is happily married in Cologne these days (To a man, naturally) and his familly still suffers (His younger brother often heard "Are you a man or like your brother)
In your society the familly would send out someone to murder (and I consider duels murder(2)) him to "restore family honor/standing"
What two warriors do consentually is none of anyones business. An embarrasment is not a dishonor. No one from the family would send someone to murder them. You are still seeing this from your own culture and experiences.
If reporting crimes is "good citizens duty" not doing so is a fault => will be punished in your "culture". So people WILL snoop around and report everything. Simply because out of fear. We had such systems in Europe. Sowjet joke:
Prisoner 1: Why are you in the GULAG P2?
Prisoner 2: I was lazy
P1: GULAG for that?
P2: Yes. See my neighbour told me a political yoke and I laughed.
P1: And that is lazy?
P2: Well, I thought "ah come on, reporting him to the KGB tomorrow morning is early enough. Turns out the bastard went there just after telling!"
That is how systems evolve, humans being humans. And "reporting every little bit" is good at eliminating rivals. And with your family structure the informant likely will not be an outsider but an insider so "no snooping"
And no, you are not supposed to go snooping around into other peoples business looking to see if they are comitting crimes. That person will eventually get the reputation of being a 'snoop' and a 'busy body'. As their reputation grows, so will their ostracism.
Corruption and treason are crimes. You are supposed to report crimes. That is what good citizens do.
So if someone tried to sell you a watch matching the description of a watch that was taken from someone by a mugger, would you report that person?
Handing the "offending" family member over to the state "doctors" to have him "cured" (or Brainwashed) is a good way to keep family standing intact after all
There are no 'state doctors'. If a person has phycholgical disorders, the family will go through great lengths to see that they are made well. Sending them and a few supportive family members to the protectorate planet of Empathy for some time often sets things right. The planet specialises in personal and phychological services.
Jup, just like the above institutions. Get your fingers at them early, "educated" them in the proper ways from birth. Read Goebbles on the Nazi youth system (or Honnecker on the East German) - Same system
(1) german police outside the SWAT equivalents are trained and orderd NOT to kill. Most police officers here pride themselves that they have "never drawn the gun outside training"
(2) There are three acceptabel reasons to kill another intelligent being:
+ He tries to harm your life/health and you have no other means (i.e running away) to prevent that
+ As above but the target is a person that can not defend itself
+ You are a member of the national armed forces and your country (or an ally) is invaded. In that case enemy armed personal is a legal target
Children are given a multimillion credit education which also includes combat training. Most people will defend their homes, family and towns with lethal force if trained, but only if the have to. Everyone is in the Army, but only a select group is a member of the Marines and Emperial Navy.
Killing for honor, revenge etc. is barbaric nonsense IMHO
They don't kill for honor, but sometimes a person elected to a position
might get killed to erase his dishonor, if it were found out that he used his office for criminal activity. Their are no 'laws' that say that this should be done, but some families take their reputations very seriously.
Most criminals, are simply stripped of their name, posessions, and social status, and made to work for another family until they regain a name for themselves.
Duels fought by men are almost exclusively to first blood only.
Duels fought by women are rare and only over the most serious matters since they rarely duel to first blood.
People make personal judgements not only on the outcome of the duel, but also the reasons for it.
The net result is a society with almost, no crime or corruption. They have great art, grand architecture, a rich culture and great public works.There are tight family structures. People greet and treat each other very politely. Individuals and their achievements are acknowledged and rewarded. Peoples homes are open to strangers and travellers. People have a great deal of time and resources to persue their own lifes goal. Generally the people are happy.
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