alex_greene said:
- What body parts of a clothed Zhodani can you never touch without their permission?
- How do the Tavrchedl' deal with someone coming out as trans or non binary?
I don't know about touching body parts. But one thing I would not touch, if I were you, is that last question. Because that would require a definite premise on how much of these identities is biological/inborn and how much is social/learned behaviour - which in turn is a question I would not touch IRL with a ten-foot sterilized barge pole. Held by someone else.
What are Zhodani mealtimes like? In the family? In the Service?
Things like these, which don't really impact the basic structure of society much, probably show as much variation as in other cultures.
- What are their rites of passage?
Going by the rulebooks, they obviously have an idea of adulthood similar to other human cultures with similar lifespans. There is also the factor that all Prole children are at some point tested for psionic potential - that day may be a rite of passage as well.
- Do Zhodani marry, and what do their wedding / betrothal ceremonies and relationships look like?
Families are mentioned and can be inferred to be quite important. Since can also be inferred that the Zhodani have gender equality similar to mainstream Imperial human culture, we can assume that typical, monogamous marriages (or marriage type associations) are the norm.
They're probably less the norm for nobles, since the mechanics of prole-intend-noble social mobility would otherwise lead to the proportion of the nobility in the population rising steadily. Nobles, and that is pure conjecture now, probably have larger, looser kinship groups which "adopt" specific intendants.
A related question is how lineage is traced and how relationships between social castes work. IMTU: Matrilineal, and normally when they occur. (Precisely because of matrilineal social lineage, intercaste relationships and offspring are not a big problem.)