I just turned 42, am married with 2 kids and I teach drums and piano for a living. I spend time and money on minis because I like to paint, build terrain, and play occasional games with my son. I play mostly board games, not mini games, and I do it for social reasons. I only game with people I like which is why I never play in stores or tournaments. I suppose I like the artistic aspect of creating a painted model and my own terrain.
I game:
1) to escape certain parts of reality.
2) for the company-I party, therefore I am.
3) to indulge in the artistry of a game, represented both in the artwork and design.
4) because it gives me the illusion of control in my life
5) life is a game, is it not?