I've always seen SOC (in addition to some of the things mentioned) as 'the way you were raised', e.g. mannerisms, how you walk, talk, whether you know which forks are what etc. Instead of it just being a strict measure of your standing in a particular society, it also covers how you act. So that might be always opening the door for others, or it could be not making eye contact with people below or higher than you.