but I didn't think the love affair between Conan and Rudabeh was "execrable".
Rudabeh is a prim, stay-at-home lady who wants a husband with a proper job, who she can take home to meet her family and will be a valuable addition to the family. De Camp has Conan seriously considering settling down and becoming a blacksmith in order to woo his lurve. COmpare this with Belit, who is Conan's equal in every way, except fighting skill where she is inferior, and experience and cunning where she is his superior. She joins him in his adventures, or rather he joins her, and she spurs him to deeds of fame and heroism he could never have matched alone. Before he meets her, he's a vagabond mercenary. After, he's on the road to greatness.
The only thing Rudabeh inspires in Conan is a desire to get a steady job and raise a family. In CONAN?
No no no no no no no.