kafka
Mongoose
One does have Confessions of a Part-Time Sorceress out there...but that is so heavily skewed toward D&D...there must be women who play Traveller, Call of the Cthulhu, Cyberrun and a whole host of other games...absolutely neccessarily would be an appendix or chapter in explaining RPGs to your significant other. The biggest problem we guys have is explaining what we are doing those weekend nights...without sounding completely daft.