Most of our battles end up with one fleet completely destroyed (usually mine), and one fleet moderately to badly damaged.
In general, there's no use for counting VPs.
In most of our battles, the scenario is the following :
Turn 1 : long range fire
Turn 2 : long / middle range fire, one side takes advantage, but it can still swing both ways
Turn 3 : one side definitly takes advantage and destroys most of the ennemy fleet
Turn 4 : winner mops up the survivors
That gives me an occasion to ask a question : how long do your battles run ?
The longest battle we fought saw the last surviving Hyperion and Mothership turning around each other, exchanging broadsides and trying to place their beam.
Most others are finished by turn 4 or 5, whatever the priority level or the number or ships (max : 5 Armageddon, 5 or 6 turns, 1 Warlock and 2 Delphi survived on my side).