I agree that Sutek was mildly sarcastic before you Sup4. That much is true by his own admision. I don't think he was admitting it to be intended as blatantly insulting however... that isn't what I take 'a little sarcastic' to mean, or how I would view that statement in the context of speaking about a post where someone quite literally did draw a diagram to discuss things with you.
So...
I think you did get baited, slightly. I agree on the chronology, but not on the severity, which is why I think you overreacted. Slightly at first, and then more later. You were actually rather polite at first, asking him what he meant by his statement. So there is no doubt you tried to avoid the argument in that instance. After that however your temper appears to get the better of you.
To me the difficulty with a dialogue with you doesn't have anything to do with you losing your temper however. But I think perhaps I'm a bit more diplomatic than some, if I may say so myself without seeming exactly the opposite. Some people make 'snarky' comments as both a vent for sarcasm and their own tempers/frustrations, as well as a means of humor... and my general recollection is that you respond rather aggressively to any of them that are directed in your general direction. Which I would characterize as, usually but not always, an overreaction. But that is neither here nor there as far as I am concerned, because like I said... I think on that front I don't have much trouble getting along with you ( or anyone ) because I usually ( but not always ) refrain from snark.
To me it is more about the aforementioned 'brickwall logic' issue. Not that this is always a bad thing. I imagine it would be more difficult than usual to con you for example. But it makes a debate much more laborious. :wink:
So...
I think you did get baited, slightly. I agree on the chronology, but not on the severity, which is why I think you overreacted. Slightly at first, and then more later. You were actually rather polite at first, asking him what he meant by his statement. So there is no doubt you tried to avoid the argument in that instance. After that however your temper appears to get the better of you.
To me the difficulty with a dialogue with you doesn't have anything to do with you losing your temper however. But I think perhaps I'm a bit more diplomatic than some, if I may say so myself without seeming exactly the opposite. Some people make 'snarky' comments as both a vent for sarcasm and their own tempers/frustrations, as well as a means of humor... and my general recollection is that you respond rather aggressively to any of them that are directed in your general direction. Which I would characterize as, usually but not always, an overreaction. But that is neither here nor there as far as I am concerned, because like I said... I think on that front I don't have much trouble getting along with you ( or anyone ) because I usually ( but not always ) refrain from snark.
To me it is more about the aforementioned 'brickwall logic' issue. Not that this is always a bad thing. I imagine it would be more difficult than usual to con you for example. But it makes a debate much more laborious. :wink: